Polymer-derived SiBCN ceramic aerogels have attracted extensive attention in recent years due to the excellent electromagnetic wave absorption and thermal insulation properties. With these merits, SiBCN aerogels are promising for the application of high-speed vehicles requiring thermal and electromagnetic shielding. However, the brittleness and poor mechanical property of SiBCN aerogel seriously hinder its practical applications. In this paper, SiBCN/SiBCNnf composite ceramic aerogels with enhanced mechanical property were prepared by combining electrospinning technique with simultaneous pyrolysis process of polyborosilane (PBS) fibers and precursor aerogels. The effect of varying fiber content on the density, mechanical property, thermal insulation as well as microwave absorption performance of the composite aerogel was investigated. In addition, the underlying toughness mechanism of the SiBCN/SiBCNnf composite ceramic aerogel was elucidated. The compressive strength of the SiBCN/SiBCNnf composite aerogel increased from 0.29 MPa to 1.62 MPa. Importantly, while the mechanical strength of the composite aerogel increased by about 5.5 times, SiBCN/SiBCNnf aerogel still exhibits low density of 0.105 g/cm(3), low thermal conductivity of 0.048 W/mK and a minimum reflection loss (RLmin) of -20 dB. Owing to the integration of electromagnetic wave (EMW) absorption and thermal insulation properties, SiBCN/SiBCNnf aerogels pave the way for the construction of thermal and electromagnetic shielding material for high-speed vehicles.