Non-penetrative sexuality and sexual satisfaction among partners of prostatectomy candidates

Introduction: Curative surgery for localized prostate cancer can lead to iatrogenic erectile dysfunction (ED), affecting couples. Sexuality remains influenced by social norms, often requiring men to provide pleasure through rigid erections. However, iatrogenic ED does not prevent male orgasm, although it can disrupt body image and self-esteem. This study aims to describe couples' sexual repertoire and partners' sexual satisfaction post-radical prostatectomy at the Centre Hospitalier Universitaire de Martinique. Materials and methods: A monocentric retrospective observational study was conducted with data collected from January 2021 to March 2024. The Valentin and ASEX questionnaires were administered to the partners of future vesiculo-prostatectomy patients at the start of the sex-rehabilitation program. Responses were analyzed anonymously using the Sphinx iQ2 application. Results: The characteristics of the population were described in terms of proportions and means, with a significance threshold set at 0.05 for statistical tests. Of the 152 couples identified, 65 Valentine questionnaires were available. Respondents were heterosexual women, with an average age of 59, and their partners had an average age of 64. Non-penetrative sex was already part of the sexual repertoire for 52% of couples prior to prostate cancer diagnosis. After surgery, 32% of partners resumed penetrative sex, while 43% had not yet resumed sexual intimacy, and 14% had resumed non-penetrative sex. Mutual fondling (85%), vaginal penetration (70%), female oro-genital sex (70%) and male oro-genital sex (52%) were the most popular sexual stimuli. Discussion: Surgery was therefore no obstacle to sexual satisfaction for our respondents, with a satisfaction level of 90% before and 86% after total prostatectomy. The same applies to orgasm before and after total prostatectomy. The results show that erectile dysfunction is not an obstacle to partners' sexual satisfaction, with couples able to reinvent their sexuality around non-penetrative practices. Sexual satisfaction indicators before and after RA show a strong correlation, confirming that surgery does not negatively affect sexual satisfaction. Conclusion: The results show that men suffering from post-RP ED can free themselves from the dogma of penile erection by exploring female sexual pleasure to a greater extent. Couples practicing non-penetrative sexuality report satisfying, more playful, complicit and varied sexuality. Finally, ED has less of an impact on partners than future operators believe. Level of evidence: 5. (c) 2024 Elsevier Masson SAS. All rights are reserved, including those for text and data mining, AI training, and similar technologies.